Category Archives: Divorce
Yes, you can avoid penalties with a QDRO
If you plan to take money out of a retirement plan with a QDRO, you should know that there is a 10 percent plan penalty. However, it’s sometimes possible to withdraw money from the plan prior to retirement. One of the times you can withdraw…
The advantages of getting your alimony in a lump sum
If you’re divorcing a spouse who has considerable assets, they may propose paying you spousal support in one lump-sum payment as opposed to making monthly payments over a period of years. People often prefer (if they have the means) to do that just to put…
What should be included in a QDRO?
If you are getting a divorce, one of the things you may need to deal with is a qualified domestic relations order. This is also known as a QDRO. A QDRO is a court-ordered judgment that tells a retirement plan to pay for a former…
Good legal help can relieve your stress during divorce
Something that many people deal with during divorce is anxiety. It may be the anxiety of losing a spouse, losing a second income or being separated from children. It could be anxiety about finding money to pay for legal expenses or anxiety about living alone.…
What is a QDRO and why do you need one?
For most people going through divorce in their 20s, 30s or 40s, retirement is far from the first thing on their minds. Instead, a fair financial settlement is likely to be the larger priority. But if you do not give serious thought to retirement now,…
Can you get a protective order against in-laws during a divorce?
No divorce is easy for anyone involved, and that includes the two families caught up in the crossfire. It can be hard for in-laws to stay out of your business during this stressful time, which can lead to hard feelings and even calls to the…
What are the emotional stages of divorce?
Every divorce results in some emotional changes in those involved. There are actually around five stages of emotions that people will go through. The interesting thing about the emotional stages of divorce is that they are not always in order. Someone might start out angry…
Plan for the first holidays after divorce
There really isn’t ever a good time to get divorced. For some people, this major life change comes during the winter holiday season. If you are in this position, you need to make sure that you are planning for the emotions that are likely going…
Bipolar illness presents some challenges in divorces
Marriage is a daily challenge to try to make things work. When one spouse suffers from a mental illness like bipolar disorder, the marital struggle is more intense. There are some instances in which a spouse’s mental illness can contribute to or cause a divorce.…
Your divorce decisions now can impact your life later
When you make the decision to divorce your spouse, you need to make sure that you have things together to protect yourself. There are some splits that are amicable; however, others are filled with disagreements. Even if you and your spouse get along fairly well,…
Taxes: Another reason for strategic planning in divorce
Divorce is fraught with emotion. When the spousal relationship dissolves, it can create stress and bring out the worst in some people. While it can seem cold to say so, it is important for the parties seeking a Connecticut divorce to approach the process rationally.…
Respectful communication goes a long way in a divorce
Handling the logistical nightmare that a divorce brings can be challenging. You have to think about where you are going to live if you are the one leaving the marital home. Changing your mailing address and working through the divorce matters can all be a…
Practical tips for anyone going through a divorce
The process of divorce is one that can impact people differently. If you are in the midst of a divorce or realize that your marriage is ending, consider these tips to help you as work through the legal process. One of the most important things…
Plan for the legal end of your marriage if it is beyond repair
When you feel like your marriage is failing, you have an important decision to make. You need to think about whether your marriage is worth fighting for or if you are ready to let it go. If the answer is that you are ready to…
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